LOVE AND SEX ADVICE FROM REVOLVER’S HOTTEST SEX ADVICE BLOGGER (WARNING: EXPLICIT CONTENT)

As a proud owner of a vagina and daughter of a gynecologist, I feel more than qualified to offer up honest, raw, and unadulterated advice regarding all things related to sex, the human body, and relationships. So, all you metalhead freaks out there, please email me your most dire, dirty, sick, and twisted questions about women and the way we work, from our emotional hearts to our even more complicated parts. Email me at RevolvHer@gmail.com.


RevolvHer,
You've got to help me! I've been dating a guy for six months, and we're nuts for each other. The problem is, he loves getting head, but I have a small mouth and a really sensitive gag reflex. The last time I went down on him, I had to run to the bathroom to throw up midway through. I want to please him, but I also don't want to barf on his cock! How can I make myself better at deep-throating?
Please help!
Gagged and Bound, Phoenix, AZ

Dear Gagged and Bound,
I hope that I can be of help here, because barfing on your dude’s cock is soooo not hot. First of all, you don’t need to deep-throat his dick to give him good head. Get the shaft good and wet with your spit and then use your hand to stroke it, and only use your mouth on the head of his dick. It is like a handjob/blowjob combo deal. Your mouth will be working the most sensitive part of the penis (the head) and keeping things lubricated, and your hand will be doing the rest of the work for you. If you need to see how this is done, just get yourself onto pornotube.com or some kind of porn site, and search for blowjob videos. The porn stars will show you that you can use your mouth in a variety of ways to get a man off.

Now if your man likes you to deep-throat and gag and all that hardcore stuff, then that is a whole different story. The one way to control your gag reflex is to breathe through your nose and relax your mouth and throat (I learned this at the dentist during tooth x-rays!). If you try to breathe through your mouth, you won’t be able to get any air, you will panic, and maybe even hurl, thus killing any sexy vibes. Also, if he pushes your head down forcefully on his cock and you get scared, he will most likely inspire the panic/gag reflex. It is also just kind of uncool for him to do that, unless, of course, you are into it and have told him so. He has to let you control the actions or, if he likes to hold your head, he has to do it gently, so you feel like you are in charge of how far things go. My suggestion is to ease yourself into this: only put it in your mouth as far as you feel comfortable and then make use of your hand! Also don’t forget to pay attention to his nuts!
xxx
RevolvHer