LOVE AND SEX ADVICE FROM REVOLVER’S HOTTEST SEX ADVICE BLOGGER (WARNING: EXPLICIT CONTENT)

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Dear RevolvHer,

OK, I really, really, really want to spit in my girlfriend's mouth during sex. Is that so wrong? The one time I joked about it to her, she seemed repulsed. Am I disgusting? If not, how do I get her to be into it?
Reggie from Ohio

Hey Reggie,
Because you joked about your desire to spit in your girl’s mouth, instead of telling her flat out how much you want it, you didn’t give her a chance to really examine how she feels about it as a possible reality in her sex life. She had the normal reaction that most people unfamiliar with your spitting fetish would have. In fact, when I first read this, I was a tad repulsed…and totally curious. I did some internet searching and realized that there are bunches of dudes into spitting on girls. So I guess you aren’t abnormal, and I guess I am not as much of a sexpert as I think I am, or perhaps you went down the same spit porn highway I landed on and it really stuck in your head. Had you told your girl with sincerity about your desire, perhaps she wouldn’t have mocked you. Or she might still have been totally repulsed at the notion of you hocking a loogie into her mouth. I would say that this kind of fetish is akin to the peeing fetish that some folks dig. Spitting on someone and peeing on someone might be a way to sexually degrade them or express dominance, not that there is anything wrong with that. The person on the receiving end needs to have some sort of desire to be powerless in order for them to get off from the act. If she doesn’t have such a desire, she might agree to your fantasy, but only be doing it to make you happy, which is also admirable. It’s up to you if it matters how or why she will accept your spit in her mouth. If she is really not into it, it won’t happen. But I suggest you make the case that your spit is really no different than your cum, and if she has been willing to take your ejaculate in her mouth, she should be willing to take a little wad of saliva.
xxx
RevolvHer